Holiday Party Planning

Holiday parties are a great time to get together with family and friends and appreciate the people you have in your life. But, it takes a lot of preparation so it is a must to be prepared with your holiday party planning.

There are a lot of major holidays that are great for having large get togethers. With the different holidays come different types of parties that you may throw for it. For instance, Fourth of July parties are typically barbeques and pool parties. Thanksgiving parties are dinner parties while Christmas parties can be cocktail parties. Holiday party planning is not much different then planning other types of parties. You still have to consider your guest list. You’ll have to make sure you have enough food for the number of people attending. You’ll have to consider a venue, renting tables or chairs and buying party supplies. The big difference is that the holidays themselves also require a lot of preparation. If you are planning to have a Christmas party, you somehow have to incorporate gift shopping, holiday decorating and all of the other Christmas preparations to top of your holiday party planning. You may need a little help. You can ask someone to plan the party with you or you can hire a party planner.

Choosing the theme is already done for you when you are throwing a holiday party so the way to make it different is to incorporate fun and unique activities to do or through your party presentation. Research and put the time and money into the little things that will make your party unique. Consider doing a fabulous invitation. Rather then sending the plain old invitation that everyone sends, change it up. Maybe send your quests their party favors in advance for a Christmas or Chanukah party. Buy a small gift for each guest, send it to their homes as a wrapped present and include the party invitation as the gift tag. For a thanksgiving party, you might consider writing out your invitation in an ink pen in a dialogue that the pilgrims might use then age the paper by heating it slightly in the oven. You can send the invitation rolled up and tied with a string. There are so many things you can do it only takes a little imagination. Holidays are great because they allow the fools in you to come out. So don’t be shy about stretching your imagination and making the silly or impossible, possible.

Above all, when people attend a holiday party they are looking to have a good time. They look forward to these excuses during the year to forget about the pressures of life and let loose. It is up to the host or hostess of the party to supply that for their party guests. The goal is to have your guests leave and talk amongst themselves about the wonderful time they had. As each year goes by, it’s hard for people to remember every holiday. But, by giving a great holiday party, you give your guests a way to treasure that year and say, “that was the holiday that we went to so and so’s.”

Bachelor Party Planning

He followed his bride to be to every flower store, to every cake tasting appointment, through every page of every bridal magazine invented and now it is his turn. Let’s face it, a wedding is mostly about one thing; the bride. She is primarily the one who is fulfilling her dreams from when she was a child and making every fantasy come true. And yes, the men enjoy the party that a wedding brings and are fulfilling their dreams by marring the girl that they love but, they are secretly living through it for one thing; the bachelor party.

The bachelor party is his time to shine. It’s the only thing throughout the entire wedding process that is all about him. And that’s what bachelor party planning entails; giving him the night he deserves. Most likely the one to plan the bachelor party is the best man. The ushers are also involved but it’s the best man that needs to take the lead. The first thing that the best man should do is to find out what the groom would like for his last night of freedom.

It is pretty clique to think that all men would like to see a half naked girl dancing on their laps. This does tend to be the bachelor party trend though. A lot of men feel like they want to get “it out of their system” in order to settle down. Again, it is up to what the groom wants. If this is something that he would like to do, then it is up to the best man and his ushers to fulfill his every dream. But, if you are looking for an alternative, there are plenty of other things you can do.

Maybe the groom is a little more wholesome and not interested in seeing anyone but his future wife dance around half naked. That is okay also. Instead of planning a trip to the strip bar, plan a trip to an adult arcade where you can buy alcohol and food as well as play the games. Or you might want to go to a batting cage. Although it does not serve food or drinks, that is something you can do afterwards. Think about taking your buddy and all of his friends to play paint ball. It is a good way to release nervous energy and bond with the guys. Hire a limo wherever you decide to go to eliminate any problems with a designated driver. Everyone at the bachelor party can have an equal amount of fun.

The guest list and who should pay are some things that a lot of guys have trouble figuring out. Who should be invited to the bachelor party? It should definitely be the father of the bride and groom and any male relatives. Of course, the ushers should be on the guest list. If you have any doubt about who should be invited, talk to the bride. She will be able to provide you with a proper list of who should be invited plus their addresses or telephone numbers. While you’re at it, at this point you should talk to the bride about some things that she would not appreciate her groom getting involved in. Be a good friend, save your friend from any problems in the future. Who pays for the night is a little more tricky. You might get lucky with a father or father-in-law of the groom who is willing to pay for the whole night. But, if that is not the case add up how much you think the night would cost and divide it by the number of guys going. Leave out the groom so he does not have to shell out anything. Don’t forget to add in tips to the cost of each event.

Above all, the bachelor party is a time to let loose and have a good time. Be the best man you can be and give the groom everything he wants.